Your reputation is on the (phone) line
Returning calls
I’m writing this post because many of you have expressed frustration with the lack of respect shown by others not returning your phone calls. Some of you wanted tips, advice and a good scolding for the culprits. Our style isn’t to scold (okay, maybe sometimes). Instead here is our take followed by some image and etiquette advice.
You’re not alone
Several months ago, to follow up on some business etiquette training we had done for an accounting firm, I was speaking with their new managing partner. She expressed interest in my proposal however suggested that I connect with her human resources manager as this project fell under her mandate.
Voicemail snail
I’ve been trying to connect with her HR manager for months now. Every time I call I get her voice mail and so leave a detailed message as instructed, but I never get a telephone call back. Finally today was my lucky day, I reached her live.
“I’ve been so busy.”
She apologized profusely for not getting back to me explaining that she’s been very busy, had intended to return my call all along but life got in the way. I could have chosen any number of responses but decided to let her off the hook and make light of the situation. What good would it have served if I told her exactly what I thought?
So what do I really think?
We are all busy. Who isn’t, these days? But getting back to people in a timely manner is what professionals do. When you drop the ball and force others to constantly follow up, you undermine your professional credibility. We feel disrespected and lose faith in you and your professionalism. We would hesitate to recommend or promote you to others in our sphere of influence.
Tip 1 – If you don’t have an answer
When you don’t have an answer to an inquiry, it is still important that you respond. Don’t leave the other person hanging. Let them know that you’re looking into the matter and you will get back to them. That’s a mark of a true professional.
Tip 2 – Even if it’s bad news
For anyone in a business development role, this scenario plays out all too frequently. Many people would rather pussy foot around than be direct. How much better would it be if you put yourself in your potential prospect/client’s shoes, called her back to let her know you were considering the proposal but the timing isn’t right so to please call you back in 6 months.
Tip 3 – Be upfront
Respond and be upfront. II your response is a definite negative, just say no thank you. A speedy response has an impact on trust and your professional image.
Thanks for your comment, Elaine.
I certainly sympathize with your frustration and know most of us have experienced this. Companies should have a customer service policy that ensures more than one attempt to connect with customers. Otherwise it turns into telephone tag and it seems as consumers we are always “it”.
I am so frustrated as a consumer!! When I call a business about a problem or bill or whatever, I get so perturbed when they only try to reach me ONCE!!! If I’m not able to answer 0r don’t hear, they leave a message for ME to call them back. I think this is a bit ridiculous cuz Ive explained the problem on the first go around….. so it’s not resolved. I feel they should try calling me back a couple more times cuz it’s still an active problem!! What’s proper??
Nikki, you are so modern. Polite but modern. 🙂
Theresa, fragrances are a real issue for people. Less is definitely better. One person’s “Heat” is another person’s “Poison”. We’ll have to blog about this.
I’m changing my voice mail message to “Please hang up and text me.”
what is your view on fragrance in the work place?
we have cubicles and not sure how to address this without hard feelings
thanks