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Inside This Issue

 

- Holiday Party Tips

 

Dear Joanne & Terry Q & A:

 

- Table Manners

 

- Quotable Quotes

 

- What's New With Us

 

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T'is the Season  -  The Holiday Party Tips Issue

HOW TO AVOID THE OFFICE PARTY HORRORS

 

Remember the office party where ...

The one where Pete got drunk and insulted the boss’s wife
or the one where Brad and Angelina were discovered in the photocopier room “reproducing something ”
or what about the one where ...

 

Why are the most memorable holiday office parties always the ones where something really embarrassing happens?

 

To make the holiday season run smoothly,
this issue is packed with office party tips

  • How to organize a great party
    (as opposed to an embarrassing one)
  • How to survive an office party
    (without having to move and assume a new identity)
  • What to wear to the holiday party
    (what the heck does "holiday attire" mean)
  • What to give - memorable gift ideas

 

Tips to organize a great party

Check out this timely newspaper article (pdf) we were just featured in - MAKING YOUR OFFICE PARTY MERRY - Tips on getting more mingling at the gala and avoiding boorish booze-ups

 

Survival tips for party goers

Click here for - TIPS TO SURVIVE THE OFFICE PARTY - with your career and marriage still intact

 

But I don't know what to wear

We help you look good at the party and decipher the dress code on the invite. Click here for SPECIAL EVENT DRESS   - Tips and Guidelines

 

What should I get them

Click here for great ideas to personalize client gifts

GIFTS THAT MEAN SOMETHING - and don't cost a fortune

 

Just what you always wanted ... a donkey

We got you something nice for Christmas.
How does a donkey sound? Not what you wanted?

Too bad it's already in the mail, and boy did we have a hard time getting it into the mailbox.

Click here to see a picture of your donkey and other gifts we purchased.

 

Don't worry it's not coming to your mailbox.

To say thanks to our clients and readers, this year through Oxfam on your behalf we sponsored some gifts including girls’ education, a peace donation and a donkey for a needy family. 

 

Season's greetings and wishes for a peaceful planet.

Joanne and Terry





Q&A - Business Etiquette, Dress & Table Manners Advice

Contact us with your questions.

 


Dining Question:

 

Q:  Dress him up but can't take him anywhere?

 

My husband's table manners embarrass me. I cringe when I watch him grip his knife and fork. I can't seem to get him to change. It's becoming a sore point in our relationship. With the holiday dinner invitations coming up, can you help?

 

- Mary G. Ontherocs

 

A:

These days at least 60% of the diners we see out there have unusual ways of using their cutlery. Unfortunately people who look awkward at the table aren't even aware that they are doing anything wrong. But the people like yourself, who know the proper etiquette, certainly notice.

 

Many spouses share with us that their partners don't seem able to follow their example and learn by osmosis (ain't that the truth in other things as well). Don't let it ruin your relationship and never nag or correct them in front of others.

 

Use some humor to take the edge off reminding him. Try a fun descriptor of his awkward grip, such as the prison grip or the air passenger grip. When he does it and you aren't dining with others, rib him gently with "You're using that prison grip again".

 

To reinforce this, you might try giving him our online dining training as an early Christmas gift. Watch it together (tell him it's a comedy). It has some funny examples and it visually shows what to do and not to do.

 

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Quotable Quotes:

 

What I don't like about office Christmas parties is looking for a job the next day."

- Phyllis Diller


Keep a good heart. That's the most important thing in life.
It's not how much money you make or what you can acquire.
The art of it is to keep a good heart.
- Joni Mitchell


WHAT'S NEW WITH US:

 

Better than the yuletime log fire on TV:

 

Joanne and Terry will appear numerous times over the holiday season on Shaw Cable, talking about holiday entertaining.

 

~~~

Terry's Always Dining Out

 

Once again Terry in conjuction with the hardworking executive of the University of Alberta Cooperative Education Students Association put on their 4th Annual Top of Class Business Etiquette Dinner.

It was a lot of fun and a great success with the event selling out to 150 business students in very short order.  This year corporate sponsors from the community attended as well.

 

~~~

 

Our Dining For Success Program is Being Used by MBA Programs in the United States. 
Here's what they have to say:

 

"An important workplace skill that seems to be missing for many younger professionals is business etiquette.  Therefore, we have committed to providing enhancements to our MBA program that give our graduates an edge in their careers.  The Dining For Success program allows us to provide critical training in an engaging cost-effective manner that our MBA students enjoy and value." 

 

- MBA Program Director

College of Business and Public Administration

Eastern Washington University

 

~~~

 

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Date: Wed. Feb. 25th, 2009

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All About You - Presenting and Expressing Yourself with Confidence and Style

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Date: Tentatively Sat. Feb. 28th, 2009

Location: in the Parksville/Nanaimo area

 

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